I don't tolerate any moronic 'it's okay for people to be really f*cking evil in what they do with words but if you swear at them or otherwise use languahe to put them back in their sh*thole they crawled out of then you get a warning or are expected to accept that sh*te'
You're wrong - if I am goaded then the goaders deserve you to talk down to them like that, don't think that because I call them a c*nt or something that you can say that's what isn't acceptable.